Youth groups – What should they look like?
June 11, 2009
According to studies done by The Barna Group
…that despite strong levels of spiritual activity during the teen years, most twentysomethings disengage from active participation in the Christian faith during their young adult years – and often beyond that. In total, six out of ten twentysomethings were involved in a church during their teen years, but have failed to translate that into active spirituality during their early adulthood.
And, according to the study:
“Much of the ministry to teenagers in America needs an overhaul – not because churches fail to attract significant numbers of young people, but because so much of those efforts are not creating a sustainable faith beyond high school. There are certainly effective youth ministries across the country, but the levels of disengagement among twentysomethings suggest that youth ministry fails too often at discipleship and faith formation. A new standard for viable youth ministry should be – not the number of attenders, the sophistication of the events, or the ‘cool’ factor of the youth group – but whether teens have the commitment, passion and resources to pursue Christ intentionally and whole- heartedly after they leave the youth ministry nest.”
- I believe that a youth group is something the kids should be, not simply something they do.
Scriptural studies, apologetics, basic church doctrine….these should be the foundation so that the teens can face life, and questions about their faith, with confidence.
This is my question to those who lead youth groups, pastors (youth and otherwise), adult volunteers, parents who have kids attending church youth groups……
What do YOU think a youth group should look like?
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Joy | June 11, 2009 at 11:00 pm
WOW…good question Christian…
The infamous heretic Brian McLaren once noted that when he asked kids at a interdeminational youth camp what their individual churches were talking about and focused on and then conversly asked the kids what they themselves were feeling and thinking and struggling with …there was a chasm between the two lists a mile wide…Their faith communities were COMPLETELY irrelevant.
What I have seen in the lives of my own kids is their innate ability to smell BS…and recognize unnecessary fluff. Smoke and mirrors and all of the hype that money can buy (while entertaining for a bit) is ultimately unfulfilling and often misses with kids/young ‘adults’ who are looking for a safe place to “BE” as you remarked…
My kids genuinely want to know God then to be known and accepted by their community. A liminal place where communitas unfolds is what my kids seem to really respond to. It is equally important for them to be able to put their faith into practice by doing what Jesus did…having a greater purpose than sponging, partying…and being ‘fed’…In fact, my goal in helping my kids reach maturity, spiritual or otherwise, has always been teaching them to ‘feed’ themselves…and to inturn feed others…I’d love more cooperation in that from a community of faith.
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youth ministry | June 16, 2009 at 6:01 am
Youth is the most valuable time in life, Thanks a lot for remembering me these thoughts.
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cousinavi | June 29, 2009 at 1:21 pm
When you ask a 15-year-old boy WHY he did some stupid thing, what does he say?
“Uh…I dunno.”
There could be no more frustrating answer to an adult. What the fuck do you mean YOU DON’T KNOW?”
The fact of the matter, he’s telling you the truth. Consequential reasoning doesn’t really cognitively develop as a matter of pure brain function until about 18. The kid never remotely considered what might happen as a result, and he had no particular reason for doing it.
It is not that ‘universities teach children godlessness’ – it’s that just at the same time kids hit university, they also develop brains that ask questions about consequences, implications, foundational truths…and some of them find the premises weak.
I understand your desire to present a program of extended indoctrination. This is sort of the core “Dover” issue.
MOST universities want to teach things that are, in some way, EVIDENTIALLY true. Others are called Liberty U.
Be that as it may, I welcome you to present your Bible-based brainwashing on campus. It is an ironic form of cognitive dissonance I should wish to see in practice. Very much like a “Stick with Santa” campaign in grade eight. I fully expect your forcing the question only drives even more into the arms of reason.